Today on Instagram, I saw a post written by a widower that I follow. It hit home so hard, I felt the tears well up. "We are all so damn hard on ourselves. Especially after a profound loss. You may not see it. But I do. Your bravery. Your survival. The ability to push forward. Somehow. Someway. Even during those moments in which you want to quit. People say they are broken as though they are ashamed. The broken are beautiful, I respond. The ability to be broken and to push f